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Arts.Advocacy+Wellness: "I am LIVING My Truth"

Thursday, March 24, 2011
RAW by C.R. Knight
Four months into the year and I was starting to have a jones for HIM. It was a cold December night that left me speechless as he said to me "I guess I will see you next year." I promised myself that I would never let another man have me so whipped that I would damn near give him my paycheck, but it happened anyway.
It was a mere two hours before quitting time at the office. The city streets were already bustling with a Friday frenzy that only New Yorkers can produce. My phone buzzed. It was a text message from HIM.
"Whassup Court? You miss me?"
My body trembled at the first glance of his name across my Blackberry screen. It took me twenty minutes to respond, not that I didn't want to, I just knew where the conversation could lead to... my bedroom. With trepidation, I responded to his random text.
"I see someone has resurfaced."
Immediately he responded asking what time I wanted to see him. How presumptuous, of him I thought, knowing damn well it was what I'd hoped he would ask. So, we made plans for nine o'clock.
When he entered my apartment, he smelled like he was fresh from the barber's chair. The hairy residue on his collar proved my theory. He sat down on the couch and commenced to rolling a purple haze filled blunt.
"Some things never change," I blurted.
"Don't play. This is exactly what you like and you know it." He retorted. I grinned and returned to the kitchen to crack open two Coronas with a twist of lime.
After smoking, we retreated to my bedroom. We were already naked, leaving our clothes scattered across the couch and living room floor. He put his arms around my waist and laid me down. Passionately, we made out until we were both fully erect. I was there before he was. The condom covered his hard, pulsating penis. After several strokes and months of missing it's intrusions and it growing limp in my hand, I opted to rip the condom from the shaft.
In my most vulnerable state of naked, I surrendered to further exposing myself to his deadliness. I had been forewarned several times before. But as my mama used to say, "a hard head makes a soft behind."
Hmmm. All I can say is squeeze the Charmin.
Good Knight!
Thursday, March 10, 2011
Coming soon... KNIGHT AFFAIRS
Last weekend I took a trip down to DC to spend time with Karen Minors and escape the madness of New York City. Karen and I camped out for two days to finish a few chapters in my highly anticipated first novel, Knight Affairs. You may be asking yourself, highly anticipated by who and my response to that is, me. I am clear that we live in a world of make believe. Day in and day out we make things up as we go. In many cases there is no explanation, we just do it. Some call it life, I call it opportunity.Wednesday, February 9, 2011
Arts.Advocacy+Wellness: "Cornelius responds to: Health Department's Latest HIV Awareness Campaign"


| Health Department Takes Its Latest HIV Awareness Campaign to the Subway Agency’s new subway posters show how HIV can lead to other serious diseases | |
February 8, 2011 – – The Health Department this week debuts the subway ad component of its latest HIV prevention campaign, “It’s Never Just HIV.” Reinforcing thecampaign video spot released in December, the posters speak directly to those currently at greatest risk to become infected – men who have sex with men – in an effort to combat complacency about HIV while promoting condom use. The ads serve as a stark reminder that when you are infected with HIV, it’s never just HIV; the infection has lifelong consequences that can range from dementia to bone loss and cancer even though treatment can control the virus and save lives. To continue the conversation sparked by the campaign’s original TV spots, the Department also released anInternet video in which Dr. Monica Sweeney, the agency’s assistant commissioner for HIV/AIDS Prevention and Control, discusses the rationale behind the new ads as well as the urgent need for their message to be heard. The ads and the video can be viewed at nyc.gov. “We are very concerned with rising rates of new HIV infections in young men who have sex with men, particularly those who are African-American and Hispanic,” said Dr. Thomas Farley, New York City Health Commissioner. “More than half, 57%, of all new HIV diagnoses in New York City were among black and Hispanic men in 2009. These messages are designed to remind young men that, even with the tremendous progress that has been made in treatment for this disease, it is still dangerous and the best way to stay HIV-free is to use condoms consistently.” HIV infection is no longer the death sentence it once was. By starting medication early and adhering to it carefully, HIV-positive people can live longer lives and reduce the risk of infecting others. Although treatment can suppress the virus and prevent the destruction of the immune system, growing evidence suggests that damage done in the early stages of infection can have lasting effects – even among people who get treatment. The conditions depicted in the new ads– bone loss, dementia and anal cancer – are just three of many that HIV can lead to. In 2009, gay men and other men who have sex with men (MSM) accounted for 43% of newly diagnosed HIV infections in New York City– more than any group – and they experienced more than half of new diagnoses (57%) among men. In the agency’s new Internet video, Dr. Sweeney explains, “Some 4,000 New Yorkers are newly infected every year. And the rate of new diagnoses is rising among young gay and bisexual men. In fact, the number of men who have sex with men under age 30 who are newly reported with HIV has risen by 50% over the last several years. This increase in new HIV infections 30 years into the epidemic is unacceptable to me and should be unacceptable to all of us. We have to respond strongly to prevent a new generation from getting this incurable infection.” For full coverage of this story log on to: http://www.nyc.gov/html/doh/html/pr2011/pr002-11.shtml |
Arts.Advocacy+Wellness: "De-Gaying Uganda"...NotEnoughGood.com

David Kato, a prominent Ugandan gay rights activist, was bludgeoned to death with a hammer in broad daylight at his home in Uganda, dying on his way to the
hospital. News of Kato’s death reverberated throughout the world as friends, leaders, activists and human rights organizations paid tribute to a man whose lifelong legacy championed human dignity in the face of man’s inhumanity to man.
Kato, a teacher who eventually quit his job, to focus all his attention on Sexual Minorities Uganda (SMUG), a non-governmental organization based in Uganda’s capital Kampala. SMUG advocates for the protection of Uganda’s gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgendered people. David Kato was SMUG’s advocacy officer and, some would argue, the founding father of gay activism in Uganda.
He came out to family members before leaving for South Africa. In transitional South Africa, where vestiges of apartheid and anti-sodomy laws were still in place, he saw these issues dismantled through activism, witnessing firsthand the power of individual conviction grouped by a common cause for the creation of a greater good. Struggle against apartheid gave birth to a multiracial democracy; social justice based on activism lead to the growth of South Africa’s LGBTQA movement. By the time Kato returned to his native Uganda in 1998, he was equipped with a cause, schooled in commitment, armored with an agenda, focused on its execution. He spent a week in police custody for activism the very year he returned. Once released, he plunged head and heart into Uganda’s underground LGBTQA movement.
In 2009, American evangelical Dr. Scott Lively led an anti-gay conference in Kampala, Uganda. Days after the conference, an Anti-Homosexuality Bill was introduced to Uganda’s parliament. The Bill proposed the death penalty for some homosexuals. The bill came under intense pressure from human rights activists and governments around the world; its ratification is pending, shelved. But homophobic sentiment, national bigotry and hatred was fueled and justified along religious grounds from then on.
Case in point: a short while after the 2009 anti-gay conference, Kato’s picture was placed on the front page of Uganda’s tabloid magazine Rolling Stone, where the headline written in bold capital letters read as follows: “100 PICTURES OF UGANDA’S TOP HOMOS LEAKED”. Above the front page photo of Kato was an urging by the paper: “Hang them”. Death by execution, the paper suggested, would rid Uganda of gays such as Kato, so kill him. His photo was plastered on the front page for the country and world to see; his name listed among one hundred others to be targeted. Kato sued the paper on grounds of violation of privacy and won, but often spoke of violence and death threats thereafter, making police allegations that his murder was actually a robbery gone awry (rather than a hate crime spurred by fearless advocacy for freedom of sexual expression and orientation), somewhat suspect.
There are many who argue the recent influence by white American evangelicals in Uganda is what led to Kato’s death. Their terror tactics awakened something in Ugandans that was never there to begin with. After all, gays have been in Uganda since the beginning of time. What American evangelicals did was manipulate Ugandans because of their devotion to the Christian faith, manipulated the Bible, adopted terror tactics through religious-speak where hatred targeted an easy scapegoat—homosexuals. Kato’s colleagues say to rid Uganda of foreign intervention is to free their country for the better.
There are others who argue Africans tolerate homosexuality in much the same way they tolerate extramarital affairs or polygamy. Desire is tolerated, understood, even accepted; but a homosexual lifestyle, abandoning the duty of marrying someone of the opposite sex for a lifelong commitment to someone of the same sex, is what African social norms find moral reprehensible. Why? Because the desire is human but the lifestyle is foreign. One factor that impacts this is the extremely high infant mortality rate. Because infant mortality is so high their is a necessity for many African children to be born. Additionally is the low rate of traditional African families adopting outside their family structure. So, an African family may raise children from a deceased cousin or sister, but they won’t take a child off the street into their home and adopt. Examples of this type of adoption are very rare in many places in East Africa. A homosexual lifestyle without adoption, threatens the family structure. Homosexual desire, if the person is in a heterosexual marriage with children, does not. The conflict between homosexual desire as acceptable but a homosexual lifestyle as intolerable, is at the heart of the African debate. In other words, the lifestyle makes someone gay, not the desire. Some Africans will argue to tolerate same-sex desire so long as it does not lead to same-sex partnership, commitment, a lifestyle like David Kato’s.
At age 46, Kato left a powerful legacy that speaks to all but perhaps most loudly to queer Africans of non-conforming genders on the continent and in the Diaspora. It accents our fundamental mission here on earth: To learn about each other and, in so doing, learn more about ourselves. We are not all the same, though the professional, adult world asks us to be. But we are different, all of us, and different people relate differently to this world, which is what makes the world better and life richer. No one person, no one sexuality, no gender expression, no one gender, no one creative form of being, is more important than another.
Killing does not rid the world of difference. One less Kato in Uganda does not make Uganda any less gay, believe me. One living Kato alive and breathing in Uganda does not make Uganda any more gay. Just as one more woman does not add to sexism or one more person of color adds to racism. We only assume it does or would because our investment in making the world as we want it, denies the world from being what it truly is: diverse, complex, unscripted, multifaceted, nontraditional, untamed, unrehearsed, unpackaged because it ishuman, human, human.
David Kato is not dead. He soars to our Maker, the One who birthed him gay, radiant, warrior, lover, eternal. And his sword remains in the arena, sharpened for struggle, alive among the smoldering ash heaps that make up its ruins. And so he survives, warrior eternal.
If man’s inhumanity to man truly gives us reason to pause, then pause. Stand still, take a deep, sobering breath then maybe light a candle in the name of David Kato, a man who devoted his energy, intellectual power and physical body to a spiritual cause that is radical by its very definition—LOVE. If the sobering power of a solitary vigil does not speak as loudly as communion with like-minded folk celebrating David Kato’s monumental contribution to the human family as a queer African, come take part in the New York City vigil in remembrance of David Kato on Thursday, February 3, 2011 at the Dag Hammarskojld Plaza on 48th street and 1st avenue at 4pm. This queer African of a non-conforming gender will be there to greet you.
Nick Mwaluko was born in Tanzania, raised mostly in Kenya and other east African countries. Nick came to New York, transitioned from anatomically female to male, and is a playwright. His play S/He, the story of a man in a woman’s body, has its second run in southern Florida on February 27, 2011. Waafrika, a lesbian love affair set in a rural Kenyan village in 1992 immediately following Kenya’s first multi-party elections, will have a showcase run in October 2011 following a reading March 30, 2011. Other of Nick’s plays include Blueprint for a Lesbian Universe, Asymmetrical We, Brotherly Love, Trailer Park Tundra, Are Women Human?, and othersThank you Nick for providing this story on A.A+W Wednesday atTheFutureForward.net. To Read this article in its original form and to comment (We invite you to leave a comment and share your thoughts) Log on to:

Wednesday, February 2, 2011
Arts.Advocacy+Wellness: "Loving to Death"...NotEnoughGood.com


President, The SISGI GROUP and Founder, NOTENOUGHGOOD.COM
David Kato was probably murdered because of how he loved. That was his only crime. Not because he treated people badly. Not because he stole or created terrorism. His murder probably occurred because he was an openly gay man and an outspoken advocate for gay rights in his country. He was bludgeoned to death on January 26, 2011 just a few weeks after winning a court injunction against the magazine that called for the death of many of Uganda’s gay citizens.
At his funeral, rather than sharing remarks about the loss of a beautiful person or the ways that David’s life touched and empowered others, Regardless of how you might feel about someone in life it seems unforgiveable to speak badly about him or her while acknowledging his or her passing. It seems an extreme and cruel action when the individual is not alive to neither defend nor address your actions. But somehow it has become a popular method at the burials of LGBT citizens around the world. Here in the US, a religious group actively seeks out funerals of LGBT citizens as a way to spread their beliefs against homosexuality. It seems so counter to the messages of love and respect for your neighbors that are throughout Christian scripture.
Over the weekend, I watched a 2009 Lifetime movie called Prayers for Bobby. Sigourney Weaver played Mary Griffith, a devoutly Christian women who’s son was gay and eventually killed himself, in part because his close knit and religious family indicated their disgust for his actions and pushed for him to change. Unable to change as they requested, even after therapy, prayers and a consistent desire, he took his life by jumping off a bridge into oncoming traffic. Mary Griffith struggled with his death and her understanding of scripture and allowed the minister at his funeral to speak negatively of her child and his lifestyle. Eventually Mary comes to understand how wrong she was and becomes a strong advocate for gay rights. Unfortunately, she had to lose her son to get to this place of understanding.
In Uganda, living as a homosexual can bring you a sentence of life in prison. In many other places it can lead to capital punishment, torture or exile. For those involved in human rights and for individuals who are working for social change, we must continue to understand these types of larger social policies around the world. Most importantly, we must continue to question the harshness of laws around the world.
If this were an issue of individuals of different races loving each other, one might be quick to state how wrong it is to stop people from loving one another. It has become a societal norm for the most part in the U.S. to not make issue of interracial relationships. It was only a fewdecades ago where these same relationships would have been illegal. At the time, bible verses about separation were also used as reasons against race mixing and individuals that went against this societal norm faced persecution. Today, that type of thinking seems almost comical and represents a sad moment in our country’s history. We learned that loving someone of another color is not wrong and does nothing to erode the fabric of the how our society functions. For the sake of more lives, it is hopeful that one day the same will be true for the David Katos and Bobby Griffiths of the world, who love the same gender.
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